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Feature 2026

Inside Elite, Members-Only Sex Club SNCTM

Feature 2026

Playboy Undercover: I Ran Into My Ex at a Sex Party

By the time we went upstairs, the bed was nearly full, which was saying something given its size. Lauren found us a place to settle in, and I laid her back so I could finally return the favor. I held her thighs and leaned in, pausing when she caught my eye and smiled.

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Feature 2024

My Ladies' Night Inside a High-End Members-Only Sex Club

As a rule, if you get invited to the sex party, you go to the fucking sex party. That was our consensus when we received the invitation to attend a masquerade at Snctm, a members-only club that promises sexual freedom, erotic theater, and maybe even group sex with some of the wealthiest hedonists on the planet.

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Feature 2023

My Partner Made Me Cry at a Sex Party, but It's Not What You Think

I didn’t feel like I was wrong for being sexual or like an immoral misfit no one would ever want to share their life with. He was seeing me as someone with a history and sexuality all my own, acknowledging my experience as mine.

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Feature 2022

What It's Really Like Inside SNCTM, New York's Most Exclusive Sex Party

The SNCTM event I attended in April was one of the club’s famed masquerades. The dress code is black tie, which for women means lingerie worn under elegant evening wear, and for men means “a proper tuxedo with bowtie.” (What a male individual chooses to wear under that tuxedo, evidently, is up to one’s discretion.) Masks — as in masquerade masks, not the other kind of mask that has dominated most levels of social consciousness in recent years — are required upon entry

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Feature 2022

I Spent A Night At The World's Most Exclusive Sex Party

“I love women, sex, and power,” a woman whispers to me as her fingers graze my mouth. She sits between her newfound lover’s legs, straddling a bench in the middle of a bathroom as he lustfully pulls on her maroon and black lingerie set. I tell her I’m a sex writer. With deep enthusiasm, she takes his hands and places them on her inner thighs, then inside her lace bottoms. “You see,” she places her fingers in my mouth, “I have all the power here. Make sure to write that down.”

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